**UPDATED TIME: Thursday (tomorrow) 11-12-15, at 4pm on Twitter.** — Dressing up in a banana, squirrel, hot dog, and gecko costume were all super fun (and sweaty), but none of them compared to Katniss. My costume arrived a couple of … Continue reading
It took me a long time to notice all the noises outside my head. And, even longer, to take the time to stop and really listen to them.
For as long as I can remember, I’ve intentionally avoided seeing the world around me. And, not just the ugly parts, I turn away from even the most beautiful.
It is all so heartbreaking.
When I finally realized it was probably better for me to feel, I opened my eyes to everything around me. Now, there’s nothing I don’t see. And, while this is wonderful in so many ways, most of the time, it’s way too much for me.
In an instant, my jacked up mind can turn beauty into tragedy.
Like, the other day, when I was watching the two cardinals that live in my yard. These guys are monogamous, and will stay together as long as life allows it. As I watched them take turns at the feeder, tears started falling down my cheeks, and my mind filled with worry. What will happen if one of them dies? Will the other one search and search and search? Will it fly into every tree calling for its other half? Will it feel heartbreak like we do? Or confusion? Or both?
I’m crying again thinking about them. Go figure.
When the weather gets cold here in Houston everyone cheers. And, so do I, until I think about all the animals and the people who have no place to go and no one to love. I think about dogs trying to find a warm place on a cold night, and it rips me apart that I can’t rescue them all.
And, of course, the people.
The other day when I returned home from dropping the boys off, there was a squirrel in the street. He’d just been hit by a car. As I neared it, I prayed over and over again, “Please be dead already. Please be dead already.”
So, I stood there, cars swerving around me, trying to figure out what the hell to do, because doing nothing was not an option. There was no way I could walk into my house and leave him dying in the middle of the road….alone. No one, even the smallest of beings, should have to die alone.
So, I picked him up. And, I stood on the sidewalk holding and petting him. I spoke to him softly, “It’s okay. You’re not alone. I’m here. It’s okay.”
He seemed peaceful when he finally went.
Or, maybe that’s just what I want to believe.
All this emotion inside of me is like an active volcano…bubbling and bubbling until it reaches the surface. It’s so exhausting, and I’m constantly wondering the purpose of it all.
Some people, no, many people, probably think I’m crazy – the girl who talks to dying squirrels and cries over cardinal romance.
But, to me, they’re the crazy ones. They’re the ones I don’t understand. The ability to see pain, big and small, and feel nothing? That’s something I can’t wrap my head around.
Or, maybe I’m just jealous. After all, apathy does seem less exhausting.
The night to hand out our We See You bags is quickly approaching, and my emotions are all over the place, more so than usual.
I’m happy I can help someone a little.
I’m sad I can only help someone a little.
Is a blanket and a toothbrush going to change their lives? Will it save them? Will it rescue them? Will it love them?
No. The answer to all that is no.
And, that kills me. It’s frustrating and heartbreaking and why can’t I do more?
But, then I remember, that doing nothing won’t change their lives, save them, rescue them, or love them, either.
So, for now, this is the only road I know to take and I’ll take it with my eyes wide open.
Well, we’re in the homestretch for this year’s project!
My son’s school has taken this up as their community service project for December. They set up bins around the campus to collect donations. They also took an excerpt from the first piece I wrote on homelessness, publishing it in their weekly post. My mind is officially blown.
When I told Luca that I’d written this page, he thought it was the coolest. It earned me major mom points and made him more interested in Project: We See You.
The students and their families will be packing the bags this weekend. I really can’t believe it. Like I wrote in my letter to the school, “All I’ve ever wanted was for this to become a movement of love and compassion, and I’m moved beyond words to see this dream coming true.”
You people, you good, wonderful, generous people, have given so much. As of now, I have raised $3,665. Amazing! I’m so grateful and I wish I could hug all of you!
Today I began purchasing all the items and it looks like I’ll be able to put together around 150 bags this year! That’s 100 more than last year! Because of you.
If you still want to buy a bag, you can do so by clicking HERE.
Thank you so much for making this a world where I’m proud to raise my kids.
Originally posted at Project: We See You.